Black Women Are Bashed as “Gold Diggers” Because They Don’t Think Your Black A** is Worth Providing For.
Seeking providers is encoded in female DNA because the women who didn’t find men willing to invest in offspring, far too often led to the child’s death, and sometimes her own. So needless to say, MOST children who have survived in early times, to have their genes in the world today, most likely descended from women who chose providers & protectors. It was integral during her vulnerable pregnant months, and when the babies were small, that paternal provider/ protector brought food, resources, shelter, and fighting skills to keep the mother and child safe.
“Why are black women bashed as “Gold Diggers”?
All over the world, women, and their families consider a suitable mate one who can (and will) provide for their daughter and any offspring produced in that union.
So why are black women bashed as “Gold Diggers” for this natural, genetically encoded process of mate selection? Its because they don’t think your black ass is worth it, sis.
The average man knows that wealth and height make him a more desirable mate, which is evidenced by studies which show that during online-dating, job and height are two of the most lied-about descriptors (akin to age and weight for women).
So why do they act oblivious when a black woman expresses normal female signs of hypergamy? Because they don’t think you’re worth the investment. For many of them, you’re the “come-up woman”… the placeholder to invest in him and get him on his feet, so he can get the woman he TRULY wants… which in caucasian-conquered societies… is a woman who most resembles the oppressor.
For many of them, you’re the “come-up woman”
You see, for men, evolutionarily, they’re going to desire the most coveted woman of their society… so if that’s a woman with 14 neckrings, big boobs, small boobs, dark skin or light skin, whatever is the desire du’jour of that society, he will most desire a woman with those features.
If he doesn’t have what it takes to impress the woman he truly desires, he’ll place-hold with you. The “meantime girl” who gives him a place to stay, invests in his education and wardrobe upgrade, teaches him (through your actions as his “wo-man”) how to spoil the woman of his dreams.
If he doesn’t have what it takes to impress the woman he truly desires, he’ll place-hold with you. The “meantime girl”
You invest in him, thinking he’s going to take you along for the ride when he’s on top, but just like any stair, he steps on you to get to the higher rung.
“For men, evolutionarily, they’re going to desire the most coveted woman of their society.”
You are integral to his survival, so of course he’s going to lie to you. Its is HIS “best interest” to.
But are you doing what’s in YOUR best interest? What would your life be like if you invested that effort into YOU?
They’re used to seeing you struggle… and think that’s where you belong.
Meanwhile they spoil the ones they think “should be spoiled. “